Hello My Friend
I have been down that road before! There
for I know your pain.I was with a woman for seven years, raised her
three boys and had a little girl with her. I had been re-payed for my
loyalty and the long hours I put in at work to support her and all the
kids with several infidelities on her part. This went own for a few
years. I thought i couldn't lose her and I had to fight to keep her and
the children. I went as far as begging,crying and trying to get her to
go to counseling, the whole time thinking to my self what was it that I
was doing so wrong that would make her do this to me.After all I
thought I was a pretty good guy.It took me catching her for the 6th
time to get mad enough to say enough was enough. I had it bad. I wanted
to take her back but I didn't want the trouble it involved, after all
her cheating wasn't all I had to worry about, I had to think what did
she pick up while she was doing this. It could have been a host of
VD's. I had to move on but how was the question. Well my friend that's
the hard part. I will not lie and say it will be easy, It wont but you
will be better for it. I have been married now to a wonderful woman
that I don't have to worry about for 8 years. I still get to see my
kids and I never had to tell them why because the oldest new, he seen
it himself. She has cheated on two of the people that she has been with
since me and she is living alone. God sure has a way don't he. She has
told me on a couple occasions that she thinks she made a mistake,
finally the last time I told her that I was sorry too because she made
that bed now she must lay in it, Find Jesus! So my friend if there is
any thought you want her back, just think if it was meant to be, it
will be. Never question God's Plan for the small things in life that he
may let slip from you. God Bless you and I wish you the best of luck.
If you need anything you can email me at: asleepingbear2002@yahoo.com
I have been down that road before! There for I know your pain.I was with a woman for seven years, raised her three boys and had a little girl with her. I had been re-payed for my loyalty and the long hours I put in at work to support her and all the kids with several infidelities on her part. This went own for a few years. I thought i couldn't lose her and I had to fight to keep her and the children. I went as far as begging,crying and trying to get her to go to counseling, the whole time thinking to my self what was it that I was doing so wrong that would make her do this to me.After all I thought I was a pretty good guy.It took me catching her for the 6th time to get mad enough to say enough was enough. I had it bad. I wanted to take her back but I didn't want the trouble it involved, after all her cheating wasn't all I had to worry about, I had to think what did she pick up while she was doing this. It could have been a host of VD's. I had to move on but how was the question. Well my friend that's the hard part. I will not lie and say it will be easy, It wont but you will be better for it. I have been married now to a wonderful woman that I don't have to worry about for 8 years. I still get to see my kids and I never had to tell them why because the oldest new, he seen it himself. She has cheated on two of the people that she has been with since me and she is living alone. God sure has a way don't he. She has told me on a couple occasions that she thinks she made a mistake, finally the last time I told her that I was sorry too because she made that bed now she must lay in it, Find Jesus! So my friend if there is any thought you want her back, just think if it was meant to be, it will be. Never question God's Plan for the small things in life that he may let slip from you. God Bless you and I wish you the best of luck. If you need anything you can email me at: asleepingbear2002@yahoo.com